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Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In

by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton (1981)

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Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In

by Roger Fisher, William Ury, and Bruce Patton

Overview

First published in 1981 and updated in a second edition, Getting to Yes emerged from the Harvard Negotiation Project and became the world's most widely read negotiation text. While not a trading book, it is included in this library for its relevance to deal-making, position management psychology, and the interpersonal dynamics inherent in financial markets.

The Problem with Positional Bargaining

The authors argue that traditional negotiation (where each side takes a position and makes concessions) is inefficient, produces suboptimal outcomes, and damages relationships. "Hard" bargaining creates adversaries; "soft" bargaining creates vulnerability. Neither approach serves well.

The Four Principles

  1. Separate the People from the Problem: Negotiate substantive issues without letting personal emotions and relationship dynamics contaminate the process.
  2. Focus on Interests, Not Positions: Behind opposing positions lie shared and compatible interests. Understanding why someone wants something reveals creative solutions.
  3. Generate Options for Mutual Gain: Before deciding, brainstorm multiple possible solutions. Expand the pie before dividing it.
  4. Insist on Objective Criteria: Use fair standards and procedures to resolve differences rather than willpower or leverage.

BATNA

The authors introduce the concept of BATNA (Best Alternative To a Negotiated Agreement), arguing that negotiation power comes from having good alternatives, not from being tough. Knowing your BATNA and the other side's BATNA is essential to effective negotiation.

Relevance to Trading

For traders, the book's lessons apply to: negotiating with brokers and counterparties, managing the internal negotiation between fear and greed, understanding market dynamics as a multi-party negotiation, and approaching trade management with principled discipline rather than emotional reactivity.